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What is most discouraging about this business are the
prevailing social misconceptions concerning bondage, at least the
benevolent, romantic type of bondage that we produce. For the
unenlightened, what we represent and advocate really needs to be clarified.
In that spirit, the following general explanation is at least a start.
It has never been nor will it ever be our purpose to
depict women as mere subordinates to men. These pictures and articles are
not about that. The materials we produce are carefully and, we think,
obviously designed for men and women to whom bondage is an important
mutual diversion, a recreational and benevolent experience, a fantasy with
a happy ending, a good natured game in which everybody wins.
It is not the pleasure of our patrons nor our intention
to offend or demean or abuse or exploit or disadvantage, be aggressive
against, or cause even the slightest pain to our models, or to suggest
that such is occurring to the ladies they are portraying. We do not
characterise victims; we characterise lovers who are mutually exciting and
pleasurable--the bondage can be for the sake of sexual teasing or foreplay;
or the acting out of a benign rescue fantasy with slightly juvenile
undertones; or just the sweet and secret simple sharing of a very special
physical intimacy between caring persons. Whichever of these it is, we
have characterised it on our pages as "Love Bondage".
While we cannot police the motives and psyches of our
customers, we can and do shape our materials for completely benevolent
natures only--either the adult who was imprinted during adolescence by the
thrilling and heroic adventure story rescue of a bound and gagged and
ultimately loving female, or the male or female adult whose basic nature
identifies with the female in bondage and craves to personally experience
those same offbeat sensations for either deeply psychological reasons, or,
to state this in the simplest possible terms, because it actually feels
good, safe and comforting even. He or she is wrapped tightly and snugly,
there is a feeling of being protected, and the rope becomes a surrogate
for the protective lover's arms. It is to please and satisfy those two
natures, and they alone, that we create these visual fantasies.
Conversely, those persons in search of darker, less
pleasant bondage themes must look elsewhere, for there is really nothing
for them here. Our materials are just not for people who enjoy scenes of
human mistreatment. If such people do show up on our mailing lists from
time to time, they certainly have no reason to linger, since what they are
seeking is probably the exact spiritual opposite of what we have to offer.
Good drama does not exist without conflict, and there
will necessarily be the blending of bondage with actual danger in some of
the text fiction that we publish. But these situations will be so
obviously farfetched or tongue-in-cheek that they are clearly not to be
taken any more seriously than a comparable paperback tale or television
episode containing the same elements. But in all of the photos that we
present, be they from contributors or our own associates, the woman is
there willingly, even gladly, and for her own reasons. Were she not, we
would not publish the picture.
Therefore, the bondage that is dramatised here is an
essentially gentle act used by lovers to intensify their physical and
spiritual closeness. She gets to belong utterly to someone she loves, and
to be adored for what he perceives as the prettiness of her dependency on
him. She has surrendered for him that part of her independence she doesn't
want. They are fortune-blessed soul mates, theirs is completely a mutual
act of trust, love, appreciation of themselves and each other. And the
readers who look on perceive her bondage as physically and spiritually
pleasing to her--she knows that it has more to do with being wanted than
abused. Were that not the case, we would ourselves be offended.
Our bondage has absolutely nothing to do with demeaning
anyone. It is totally and utterly a bilateral activity, and where it not,
we wouldn't have anything to do with it.
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